Grammar, knowing how the language works, is just mechanics.
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I believe that what makes you connect with someone is culture.
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Culture allows you to touch people, to create connection.Ā
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You can have the most perfect grammar and no being able to connect.
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Like a very technical musician thatās unable to convey feelings through music.
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And you could know one piece of French culture and being able to connect with a French person.
I'm going to share my friend's story with you.
I was speaking with someone a few months ago. And I didnāt share her story with you just yet.
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But itās a good example of why culture is so important.
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A. Is Australian. She was in France on holidays. And her French wasnāt the best but it wasnāt bad either.
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She was staying in a AirBnB and she was very upset because her French was not how she would have wanted it to be.
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Or so she thought, because French people didnāt really wanted to talk to her.
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In turn, she had trouble speaking, because her confidence wasnāt boosted.
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But you know what? When she left France at the end of the summer, she had lots of French people telling her they wanted her to stay at theirs next time she comes.
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She made FRIENDS out of French people.
So what did she do?
Her level didnāt suddenly change. She didnāt suddenly understand French tenses or how to place the vowels in her mouth.
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She did a single surprising thing.
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She started mentioning that she liked a certain French singer: Joe Dassin.
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And this simple little things, got her from āperson who wants to learn French and wants to talk with me to improve itā to āpotential friend because of common interestsā.
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And let me tell you, I want to speak to that kind of person!
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And Iām sure you do too, donāt you?
Itās not all about grammar, and vocabulary. Itās mainly about culture.
Because Iām sure you are not learning French to be able to say things in French. You want to connect. If not, maybe learning another language was not the best of ideas.
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(Donāt get me wrong it has other benefits)
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Either way, now you know, donāt put aside culture as being less important.Ā
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Immerse yourself in French, Spanish, or whatever language you want to learn, by studying the culture and knowing a bit more than the clichƩs.
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As to me, I want to hear your opinion in the comments, so Iāll see you there!